Mother

                              Mother

 I just wanted to google mother, but what I found was various products, names of shop and organizations and so on. What does mother actually mean? I just wanted to know the views of the people around the world but I found almost nothing. Either women trying to define mother or some definition and so on.

 For example Wikipedia defined a mother as, " Mothers are females who inhabit or perform the role of bearing some relation to their children, who may or may not be their biological offspring. Thus, dependent on the context, females can be considered mothers by virtue of having given birth, by raising their children, supplying their ovum for fertilization, or some combination thereof. Such conditions provide a way of delineating the concept of motherhood, or the state of being a mother. Females who meet the third and first categories usually fall under the terms 'birth mother' or 'biological mother', regardless of whether the individual in question goes on to parent their child. Accordingly, a female who meets only the second condition may be considered an adoptive mother, and those who meet only the third a surrogacy mother.

Is this enough? Do you think this definition is enough to describe a mother? No, never. These words are and will never be enough..

Well! I'm not that capable to describe a mother and nether are the words able to do the job done. But I shall try to describe you, what a mother actually is ?

There is not a single religion or gods or messengers of the lord who has not defined about the greatness of mother. I can describe them all but one blog is not enough. Here I shall talk about how one of the religion on this earth, Hindu, have to say about mother.

 According to Hindu religion women have four forms' daughter, sister, wife, mother '. All are equally great but mother is the greatest. Nothing can equal Mother not even the lords according to Hindu religion. Here I maybe the greatest fool on earth to describe such divine beings. But that's what our society need to know. Since the society has forgotten the actual definition of mother. A mother today is not getting the respect, love and care she deserves. I hope this blog of mine would at least change a person if not the whole world.

Mother is a person who carries an unborn child in her womb for nine months, suffer a great pain, live an uncomfortable life through out the growth of a child in her womb, yet smile and bless the unborn. Instead of cursing and aborting the child, she accepts the pain and the trouble. She is indeed the idol of love and care.

A mother is the person who bear the unbearable pain, or so to say experience the near death experience while giving birth to a child.Yet she showers love, love and only love to her child. According to the modern science a human body can bear only up to 45 del (units) of pain. Yet at the time of giving birth, a mother feels up to 57 Del (units) of pain. This is similar to 20 bones getting fractured at the same time. Even though there is no sign of hatred of cursing the child by his/her mother. Isn't this evidence enough to prove how great a mother is?

Well even after a child is born her task is not complete. A mother takes all the burden of raising the child in her own hands. The baby which is not yet able to talk or share its feeling is very clearly understood by its mom. The mom feeds the baby when hungry, helps the baby to sleep when it feels sleepy, carries the baby when it is awake and don't want to be in its bed. She cleans the child after every excretion; urine, feces, sweat and so on. She even wakes up at the middle of the night when baby wakes up and stays awake until the child sleeps. She calms the baby when the baby cries feeling uncomfortable.

She teaches a baby how to walk, eat, talk and so on. Even after the baby learns how to eat, walk and talk her work is not yet over. When the baby doesn't want to eat, or doesn't want to walk or talks a lot, when a baby opens his/her question bank and ask various of questions, when a child gets ill. The story goes on and on.  According to Hindus; A mother is above thousands of well educated and experienced teacher combined together. In simple words even thousands of teacher cannot match a single mother. If those thousands of teachers cannot match a single mom how can my words describe a mom. It is only our heart that can feel and respect, words in this world are never enough. I can only try to describe the works of a mother. well all I can say is this universe or any other universe is not possible without a mother. Yes it is equally true that I talked only about the mother who gave birth and raise her child, there are lot more forms of mother and of course the role of father too is important but one blog is not enough for all those.

Humanity, a lesson to learn

                    Economically poor but rich by heart

Early in the morning he came walking to Pashupatinath Temple, his bag was full.  Monkeys on their first sight of him came rushing towards him. Everyone around thought he was about to face something very serious. Those monkeys rushed in such a way as if they were about to attack him, Everyone with full focus watched the monkeys and the man, thinking that either these monkeys are about to steal his bag or bite him.

But to everyone's surprise! monkeys behaved well, they all waited for him to put his hands inside the bag and distribute bread to all of them. The monkeys were chattering together as if they were all happy.

Some from far distance were angry with those to receive the bread first, they tried to bite those who came first. But they man said," don't fight, go away", and as if some kind of miracle, those who tried to create a fight maintained a distance but didn't stop chattering and threatening eachother.

 

 The man then came to them and gave them the breads, they all seemed to be thankful to such a kind man. After receiving the bread they all went on their own way as if nothing had happened, the man too walked his way. He wanted no cheers for his work, no reward, no big words, no nothing. It was as if he did for nothing, he came, he feed and then he left to his own destination. What a man!

Its really hard to find people like him in today's world. Everyone seem to have turned selfish, they all live only for themselves. Even if they do something for others they need a lot in return, either money, respect, words of thanks and lots more. Wish everyone on earth could learn something from this man

Unlucky! cause they are born as humans

    Unlucky! cause they are born as humans

Nepal, a country with child rights preserved only on papers. These Kids need to work hard to earn their livelihood. If you think you are rich and have a blessed life. Well! think again cause your heart maybe poor, and the one with poor heart can never be rich nor have a blessed life. Have you ever tried to help people for no gain in return? For no words of thanks, no blessings from god, no financial benefit, not for satisfying your ego either. Have you ever helped someone because you had the ability and for nothing else in return. If yes, are you still doing the same?

  Well the truth is always bright like the sun, shining brightly in the sky. For instance we are all aware of the greatest truth of life 'Death'. Death is the greatest truth of life and it occurs every second.We die every second and every second we have new birth. You five minutes earlier is dead like your chilhood days. The breath you take in comes out, the tasty food and drink you consumed few moment ago is on its process of leaving your body. Everything you have now will leave you one day, your friends, family ,money, health, everything. Knowing everything we still have greed, ego, jealousy in our heart. Are we intelligent beings, for sure?? In above picture a small kid tries to help her mom in work. At least she understands what is to be born poor. She may be poor now but she will sure become rich one day, if not economically, she will for sure be rich emotionally.

Here is a picture of a young girl begging at Pashupatinath temple, in one of the most cold winter days. 

Temple in native language means 'Mandir". It is composed of two word "Maan" which means heart and 'dir' which means peace. So the place where your heart is at peace is called temple. Such scenario really keep people's heart at peace.

 Great humans and of course religious mankind.

 This is the picture of kids collecting renewable products from garbage that can be sold in terms of money. The picture was taken in Birjung. A city in Nepal. Most of the people here are rich economically but very poor in terms of kindness or heart. They are really busy in earning wealth and have stored a lot, yet they are never satisfied. They are so busy that they even don't have time to see what kids like such are doing in their locality. And even if they, do they just turn their attention blaming the government for being careless. Wow! this is indeed the true picture of today's mankind.

Such photos are just endless, I will share some of those in my upcoming blogs. For now take care stay happy cause there are people in this world who are not as lucky as you are. Enjoy!!

Are you happy?

                                              

                                       I'm happy

                                                           

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         Are you happy?

                                                   Yes or No

 If yes, can you stay happy for 24 hours a day? Yes or No? Well even if you say yes, you won't deny the fact that people around the globe are not as lucky as you are. Cause its almost impossible to stay happy 24 hours a day. Isn't it? No you can stay happy, 24-7.

You might have noticed a child enjoying every seconds of its life. You feel that the child is happy and wish you could go back to the childhood days. Its impossible to go back for now cause our modern science is not that developed but yes, you can stay happy. Happiness is a very easy thing to achieve but it takes a lot, lot struggle, and hard work to gain pain and sadness in life.

Let me tell you a story,

' once upon a time in this world exactly the place you are, was a  woodcutter sleeping in the mid day under a big tree. A priest of your religion was passing by, on his first glance of the woodcutter he got really angry. In his anger, he came near to the woodcutter and began to scold," a young and active man like you sleeping in the mid day like this". The woodcutter slowly turned towards the priest with his eye half opened. When he saw the priest in a very aggressive mood, he felt as if he made a great mistake. He at once apologized to the priest and asked in a very polite voice, " which is the better position to sleep, can you please explain?". The priest got his anger cross the limit, and said it is not good to sleep in mid day specially when you are healthy and strong. The woodcutter got surprised and asked what was his duty during the day. The priest with his ego at the very top, raised his head and asked, "how many children you have?". The man said," no, I'm not married yet". The priest smiled, looked at the man and said,"so that is the reason, poor guy cut woods, take it to the market and sell it". The man looked up towards the tree and then facing the priest he said," what to do after I sell the woods". The priest laughed and said," you are indeed too innocent, sell woods earn money, do it continuously for days, and when you make a lot of money get married".The woodcutter with a positive response  to  the priest," um! and, and then sir what after marriage". The woodcutter smiled and replied," after that have children, raise them, but let there be love and only love, remember a man must fulfill desires of his children and wife". The man with full concentration towards the words of the priest again asked the priest," what else after I marry, have children, raise the children?". The priest looked at the sky with the eyes of mercy, pity and said," oh! lord why is your people so ignorant, give them some knowledge", then he turned towards the woodcutter and said," dear, your good days will then begin, you will then get the fruits of what you planted for years, " your children will then be grown up, they will earn and look after you, you can rest and enjoy the rest of your life". The woodcutter with a great disappointment looks at the priest and says," you want me to climb the tree, cut the woods, sell it in the market, get married, have children, raise them, fulfill the desire of the wife and children, take all the burden all this pain just for having a life full of enjoyment, and rest at the end?", more over who can guarantee that the children I raise will look after me, Oh! the great one, thank you for disturbing my sleep, I was enjoying my day and taking rest, if rest is what I have to do at the end why not now, I'm happy, I'm satisfied,  I need no wife no money to be saved for future. I don't want my present to be painful and full of sufferings just to make my future a dream world. Who knows how long am I going to live, Future is not in my hands but the present is, the choice is mine as long as I live, I can live with full happiness. I have no desire for future, I'm satisfied with my present, yes I'm happy today". He bids goodbye to the priest, and then goes to sleep.' The priest with no words in return moves his own way...

Did you get the moral?Let me break the hard nuts for you so that you can easily understand what I mean to say. Let me give you the example of a child. A child remains happy because it has no desire. Its like inertia of motion and rest, it continues to remain on its position or state until and unless forced by external force to change it position or state. Is your desire forcing you??????

YES! YES! YES! I know you don't believe in what I'm saying. Well in that case let me check your intelligence. Which work is easy? To do something, anything or to do nothing, just nothing? What do you think, To do or not to do, is easy? Think...... So you got the answer. What is it?

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Ah! I knew you would think the same, to do nothing. See its really very very easy to figure out and come to a conclusion that you are not as intelligent as you think you are, since you are absolutely wrong. Shocked? Now don't make that face. If you think you are correct, well! lets do it right now.

Try to do nothing, just for 10 seconds, lets see if you can. Ready??
On you mark, get set, go.

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I can't see you but I can assure that either you did something or you did something, cause even when you try to do nothing there is that 'to do', means either you try not to think, or close your eyes or keep you hands straight and so on. which means you are forcing or commanding your body, you are not letting it happen, you are using force. That is desire, and desire can be of any type. And desire is what makes you run, struggle, work hard. And this desire is really amazing, it never gets satisfied even if you get the whole world.

The same is with your happiness, your desires are the reasons why you can't stay in the same state. So quit your desire, let it happen, accept what is with you, get satisfied. Cause satisfaction is the root of happiness. The more you run the more you achieve and the more you become empty cause you need more and more. There is no happy ending in real life like in movies. So forget it stay satisfied you will sure have a happy beginning. 

Now with your eyes close or open, think of the god you love, you trust, or you have heard of.

                  Was he/she satisfied? Was he/she happy?

 

          So stay satisfied, stay happy, hope we will meet again.

  Thank you for being with me, follow me, don't follow me,hate me or like me, comment or don't, I don't care I'm satisfied, I'm happy

                                            Are you happy?

Do you want your kids to beg in streets?

       A young girl sits on street begging for food

This is what child right mean in Nepal, and government pats their back for the great work they have been doing. You might have heard about different governmental and non governmental organizations in Nepal working for kids like this. Well the reality is in front of you.

Do you love watching your kids begging on streets like this? But unfortunately, she doesn't have a mom or dad like you, neither she has a brother or sister like you. Its her destiny but mark my words, good days are coming, cause there is god watching somewhere.

Sorry! I just disturbed you, move on cause these things maybe are none of your interest. It doesn't have the capacity to entertain your soul. 

Thank you for watching

Drunkards, Nepal

This video shows how addicted people have turned out in a very short period of time. The video was taken in a garbage collection center Nijgadh, Nepal. There are around 3-4 such collection center, and this video is from the recently opened collection center. The owner of the collection center claims that its only a month collection in his center and is very few in compared to what other collection centers have collected. People invest a great amount of money in drinks like this. Government of Nepal really collects lots of revenue from these drinks. No doubt why they remain silent in topics like awareness in people about how dangerous these products can be to human health.